Bad company

Having different sex partners can result in a transference of bad energy


A good way to gage if you’re intimate with the right person is to ask yourself: Do I think highly enough of that person to want to be like him or her? Never sleep with someone you wouldn’t want to be. Imagine the confused aura of someone who sleeps with multiple people and carries around these multiple energies? What they may not realise is that others can feel that energy which can repel positive energy and attract negative energy into your life.” – Lisa Chase Patterson

It’s not an esoteric statement any longer to consider that beyond physical beings, we are energetic beings. Ever since we were pushed out of that primordial canal, we have been in search of light. No one seeks or goes towards the darkness. It is light that we are forever in pursuit of – right up until the very end. Everything in this world, from plants to a glass of water, is made of energy. You’ve got slow moving energy – the tangible; your computer, the table, the desk weight. Then you’ve got fast-paced energy, which is far vaster, and all around us, yet undetectable by any of our five senses; microwave zaps, satellite transmissions. We know that these energies exist, and have become very much reliant on them, yet we can’t see them. In turn, we possess energetic boundaries that are also composed of fast-moving, unseen energy, that prevents us from being overwhelmed by them all.

Throughout history and across all cultures, intuitives, healers, visionaries, and shamans have been able to perceive the energetic fields that science is only now coming to comprehend and study.

Our chakras are one of the three systems that link our physical and spiritual energies and interact to form our overall energetic anatomy. Beyond this, there are various types of energy fields that link our inner self with the outer world, inclusive of the auric field.

The chakras are energy receptors or holders, located mainly inside of the body. The fields, expanding bubbles or circles of light, are found outside of our body, emanating from our skin to several feet away. These fields compose our energetic boundaries. They listen to the data in our chakras and other energy centres to determine which information to bring from outside to inside of us. There are various layers or energy boundaries extending from the body. Some of these fields perform specific activities, ranging from protecting us from dangers to attracting people to us.

The most well-known field is the auric field. It’s believed that our auric field is the same as our electromagnetic field; a continually emerging and fluctuating field of energy produced by the electrical currents in our bodies. Every cell in our body pulses with electricity. Electricity produces magnetism, which means that every cell and organ, as well as the entirety of our body, generates energy fields.

“Never sleep with someone you wouldn’t want to be. Intimacy at a sexual level intertwines your aural energy with the aural energy of the other person. These powerful connections, regardless of how insignificant you think they are, leave spiritual debris, particularly within people who do not practice any type of cleansing – physical, emotional or otherwise.“


These fields are interactive; they both take in and emit energy. This is an explanation for being able to sense a persona when we first interact with a person that walks into our space. Our energetic fields respond to trauma and healing energies. Science can locate the heart field from at least four to six feet away from the body, which means we’re able to exchange energy with others near us, but we can also swap energy with people hundreds of miles away. As quantum physics is proving, once two particles or people have met, they remain connected forever. That’s how some know what’s happening to their friend who they haven’t talked with for months or how some sense the exact moment a faraway loved one dies. The fields also react to emotions and love; when two people interrelate, their energy fields blur and merge.

Electromagnetic energies are are all made of photons, the unit of energy that creates light. This means that everything composed of electromagnetic energy is light, including our energetic fields – and us ourselves. Research is revealing that we are made of and surrounded by photons. Our DNA is, in fact, a biophoton machine; a mechanism responding to the light outside and inside of us.

Not only are we made of light, but we also generate light. That personal, literal light radiates from deep within our bodies. It also streams right through from outside to the inside of us, not stopping for skin or clothing. Because we consist of light, our energetic boundaries are nothing more or less than light.

Our auric field actually consists of twelve different bands of light, each band operating at a different frequency in the electromagnetic spectrum. We determine these frequencies through colour.

Our energies merge and mingle when we interact, and particularly on a much more intense level when we merge sexually. Any time we are intimate with another person, we absorb some of their energy and they absorb some of ours.

If you have sex with good, affectionate, warming people – that lovely energy is absorbed and uplifts you. If you have sex with negative, defeatist, volatile, depressive people – that energy will weigh on you and manifest in various negative ways. Keep in mind that those who sleep with various people absorb their energies. In turn, these absorbed energies will mix with yours,
and vice versa.

Unless these energies are cleansed on a regular basis, you will be getting intimate with whomever your sexual encounter has been intimate with. Christians refer to this connection as “soul ties”. Although The Bible doesn’t use the exact term, it speaks of them when it talks about souls being knit together, becoming one flesh. It speaks of the ties between married couples drawing them together like magnets, while soul ties between “fornicators” can draw people together to create a negative one. It has been said that in the demonic world, unholy soul ties can serve as bridges between two people to pass demonic refuse through. This mergence of energy is also widely explored in the study of Tantric Sex.

As we accumulate unwanted energies in daily life, regular aura cleansing supports health and well-being. Like emotional dust rags, we go around collecting debris on our aura, until we finally do something to cleanse it. It can be thought of as personal hygiene. If you don’t bathe, your body will become dirtier and dirtier. Gradually you smell. Eventually, your body even becomes a breeding ground for disease and bacteria. If you do not cleanse your aura, your spiritual energy system will also become a breeding ground for dirty energy. Your energy system will begin to attract lower vibrations which are also unhealthy for you and others. Eventually you become negative for others to be around, though they and you may not consciously understand why.

Different approaches to aura cleansing will support you in clearing different aspects of your energy system. Some aura clearing approaches are more thin, like changing clothes, or putting on deodorant. They help, but they won’t replace bathing. Other methods of aura cleansing go much deeper – like having a long shower, or going for a detoxifying spa treatment.



Sea water contains salt and minerals, so it’s especially useful for drawing minor psychic debris out of an aura.


Light attracts light. Exposure to sunlight stimulates the flow of our own energy, and some lower vibrations cannot exist with exposure to bright light.


Coming in direct contact with the earth helps us get grounded and release unwanted energies out of the system.


Enthusiastically creating something releases a ‘creative high’. These surges of creative energy stimulate the flow of our own energy and support us in releasing blocks and unwanted energies.




It has been established that even basic meditation helps us relax and release. Aura meditation works directly with releasing unwanted energies through grounding, clearing the aura, energy channels and chakras. One of the most powerful ways to cleanse and care for the aura is energy-based aura meditation.


In an aura healing, the healer supports in cleansing unwanted energies out of the system. The healer helps to ground out psychic debris, releasing blocks and helps get the body’s own energy flowing. One form of this is the now commonly known Reiki.


When we mistake other people’s energy for our own, we do not want to release it. We hold on to it because we think it’s ours. An aura reader can help identify which energies are ours and which are foreign. When we recognise that an energy is not ours, it’s much easier to release.


When emotional energy is blocked, it creates congestion and back-up throughout the spiritual energy system. This makes it easy to get stuck with unwanted energies. A release of energy will be found when when we allow ourselves to feel hidden emotions, which will create a movement and flow that supports in cleansing psychic debris.